IT’S A!!!!

Baby!!!!! Lol so first off poor Molly and Jon’s flight was delayed they had to get another flight then that one was delayed! I was not going to make it to the airport on time so ricky had to go! Our appointment was supposed to be at 11:30 but we got in at 12:15!!! Thanks to my amazing dr and the ultrasound lady who stayed over a hour past her shift!! The ultrasound went great baby Jolly looked sooo sweet we seen fingers and toes and ears and the nose I just bake the cutest babys ever!!!! Then they said its a GIRL!!!! It was so exciting. Ill update more later im tired and need a nap!
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Tomorrow is a big day!!!

Im sooo excited to see if jolly is a boy or girl!!! What a fun time this will be!!! And Jon and Molly will get to see baby again! Jolly is very excited to see and hear mommy and daddy tomorrow! I told jolly all about it today and jolly is a wiggle worm tonight!  Im sure ill let everyone know tomorrow but it may be later so try to wait lol.

Week 19!

Well were at another week! As of today we only have 4 more days to see if baby Jolly is a boy or girl!!! I still think girl lol. Were all sooo excited. Im hoping Jolly wants to move a lot so we get some neat pics! It should be a 3d ultrasound and they said they will video it!!! How nice they never did that with my baby’s!  I think that will be a great keepsake for them to have! Im still in shock that were finding out so soon since I always waited for birth for my kids this is so different and exciting!  Not to much to report im just getting bigger and loving it!!!  As for baby….
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  Six inches long this week and about eight ounces in weight, your baby is the size of a large mango.

Your little action figure is able to choreograph Matrix-like moves this week. Arms and legs are finally in proportion, neurons are now connected between the brain and muscles, and cartilage throughout the body is turning to bone. All these upgrades combine to give your baby more control over limb movements. Which explains all that kicking, stretching, and bodysurfing (or rather bellysurfing) you’ve possibly started feeling by now.

Something else going on this week: Your baby is getting a cheesy varnish. Say what? Yup — a protective substance called vernix caseosa (vernix is the Latin word for varnish; caseosa is cheese) now covers your baby’s skin. It’s greasy and white and is made up of lanugo (that downy hair), oil from your baby’s glands, and dead skin cells. This waxy “cheese” may not sound too appetizing or attractive, but it’s there for good reason: Vernix protects your baby’s sensitive skin from the surrounding amniotic fluid. Without it, your baby would look very wrinkled at birth (sort of what you’d look like if you soaked in a bath for nine months). Some babies — especially those born early — will still be covered with vernix at the delivery, so you might get a look at your baby’s first anti-wrinkle cream.
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Week 18!

Wow it all goes soo fast! Im loving feeling baby jolly move around in there! Jon and Molly have there flights booked for the 24! Im sooo excited for them to see baby again! I’ve been feeling good having some headaches but I know that’s normal.       Now about baby!!! This week, your baby is hitting the height chart at five and a half inches long (remember, that’s crown to rump) and weighs about five ounces (the weight of that boneless chicken breast you’re making for dinner).

And now for the skill of the week (drum roll please…): The art of the yawn has been mastered by your baby (someone’s sleepy!). In fact, you might catch a glimpse of that adorable yawn if you’re getting an ultrasound this month. You’ll also catch a glimpse of all the fetal movement your baby’s doing — twists, rolls, kicks, and punches. And would you believe your baby is finally big enough for you to start feeling those movements now (or anytime in the next few weeks). So get ready!

Something you won’t see on the ultrasound, but you’ll know is in working order, is your baby’s nervous system, which is maturing rapidly at this time. Nerves, now covered with a substance called myelin (which speeds messages from nerve cell to nerve cell), are forming more complex connections. And those in the brain are further specializing into the ones that serve the senses of touch, taste, smell, sight, and hearing. Talking about hearing, your baby’s is growing more acute, making your little one more conscious of sounds that come from inside your body (which means you could both be listening to each other hiccup — a skill that your baby has by now).
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So im 17 weeks!!!

Sorry I skipped week 16 lol the weeks seem to go so fast! Everything has been going just perfect. I love feeling this tiny baby move! It dosnt happen as often as I would like yet but I know it will soon. I love the big kicks and jabs! Jon and Molly have decided to find out the sex of the baby and im sooo excited this will be a first for me as I have always had it be a surprise with my own two! I asked if they thought they knew what it might be she said they think girl! Funny because I think the same thing!!! I can’t wait to see if were right now lol. So all the fun baby news this week!                 How big is your baby at 17 weeks pregnant? About five inches long and more than three and a half ounces  — the size of your open hand. (Open the other one too and imagine your baby cradled in both your arms right after delivery!)  Body fat (baby’s, that is) is beginning to form and will continue to accumulate through the end of your pregnancy.  By the time your baby is born, body fat will make up about two-thirds of his or her weight (and will make all those chubby parts especially yummy).
 
Your baby is almost certainly listening up by now. In fact, loud noises — the dog barking, the doorbell ringing — will actually startle your baby (and also get him or her used to such noises; for instance, fetuses who regularly hear a dog barking will become babies who sleep right through Fido’s outbursts).  Your baby’s eyes (which have fortunately finished their migration  to the front of his or her head) are making small side-to-side movements and can even perceive some light, though the eyelids are still sealed.  And since practice makes perfect, your baby is sharpening his or her sucking and swallowing skills in preparation for that first (and second…and third) suckle at your breast or bottle. In fact, most of the survival reflexes that your baby will have at birth are being perfected in utero right now.

And here’s some proof that your baby is truly one of a kind (as if you needed any!). Within the next week or so, the pads on your baby’s fingertips and toes will become adorned with completely individual swirls and creases (aka fingerprints).
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15 weeks!

Sorry guys im super late with this post but were now 15 weeks. Its going sooo fast im sad for me because I LOVE being pregnant but soo happy for Jon and Molly. I can’t imagine the excitement they must be feeling getting to prepare for there little baby! So for Christmas they really spoiled me too much!!! I got yummy popcorn from Garretts! Then on Christmas eve I had two Chicago pizzas delivered and two cookies they were sooo good!!! Then Christmas morning I opened my last box it had two bags one for Kailynn and Everett! They each got a puppy that looked just like there dog Murphy!  Kailynn just loved it. She kept saying how soft he was lol. Ricky got a beer of the month club! Hes very excited about that! I got the best gift of all I think lol. A Pandora bracelet with three super cute charms!!! One from Molly and Jon and Baby how sweet is that! They got all of our gifts too! We gave them the belly buds to talk to the baby and a casserole dish for Jon and a giant wine glass for Molly that says mommy’s sippy cup lol. And a picture frame with the babys heartbeat and countdown blocks!!! So needless to say it was a great Christmas other then me catching a stomach bug I was sooo sick I threw up all day Christmas eve and didn’t feel well Christmas day so we skipped going to my parents but today I feel lots better!!! Now the fun stuff this is what baby jolly was up to this week!!! How your baby’s growing:

Your growing baby now measures about 4 inches long, crown to rump, and weighs in at about 2 1/2 ounces (about the size of an apple). She’s busy moving amniotic fluid through her nose and upper respiratory tract, which helps the primitive air sacs in her lungs begin to develop. Her legs are growing longer than her arms now, and she can move all of her joints and limbs. Although her eyelids are still fused shut, she can sense light. If you shine a flashlight at your tummy, for instance, she’s likely to move away from the beam. There’s not much for your baby to taste at this point, but she is forming taste buds. Finally, if you have an ultrasound this week, you may be able to find out whether your baby’s a boy or a girl! (Don’t be too disappointed if it remains a mystery, though. Nailing down your baby’s sex depends on the clarity of the picture and on your baby’s position. He or she may be modestly curled up or turned in such a way as to “hide the goods.”)

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14 weeks!!!

Today is our next Dr. appointment!!! I’m so very excited. I getting a head start on this I won’t post until after though. I was just looking at my blog info and WOW have a lot of people looked at this so I thought it would be fun to tell you guys!!! I have had 6,165 people read so far! From all over too! People from Canada,Brazil,Australia,United Arab Emirates,Germany,Italy,Spain,United Kingdom,Poland,Ireland,Greece,Jordan,Portugal,India,New Zealand,Croatia,South Africa,Argentina and France!!! Whoooo knew so many people from all over would read!!! I really hope this helps people understand why I choose to do this and all the love that goes into it! I hope this helps other girls learn about the process of it all and the IPs know that people will help them make their dreams come true!!! Now the fun stuff how’s baby Jolly!!!! Big news last Thursday December 12 I felt baby Jolly move!!! I know I’m still very early on but I swear I know it was baby it was only one quick move and I haven’t felt it since but it was for sure not gas lol!!! They said online you can feel earlier with each pregnancy! I can’t wait to get the daily kicks!!! Dr Sammons said everything looked great heart rate was 145 she said it was perfect!!!

How your baby’s growing:
This week’s big developments: Your baby can now squint, frown, grimace, pee, and possibly suck his thumb! Thanks to brain impulses, his facial muscles are getting a workout as his tiny features form one expression after another. His kidneys are producing urine, which he releases into the amniotic fluid around him — a process he’ll keep up until birth. He can grasp, too, and if you’re having an ultrasound now, you may even catch him sucking his thumb.
In other news: Your baby’s stretching out. From head to bottom, he measures 3 1/2 inches — about the size of a lemon — and he weighs 1 1/2 ounces. His body’s growing faster than his head, which now sits upon a more distinct neck. By the end of this week, his arms will have grown to a length that’s in proportion to the rest of his body. (His legs still have some lengthening to do.) He’s starting to develop an ultra-fine, downy covering of hair, called lanugo, all over his body. Your baby’s liver starts making bile this week — a sign that it’s doing its job right — and his spleen starts helping in the production of red blood cells. Your little pugilist’s hands and feet (which now measure about 1/2 inch long) are more flexible and active
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And thanks katelyn for the great pic lol

13 weeks!!!

I’m doing great!!! I’m feeling good and my belly is growing! I’m getting SOOO excited for Christmas this year I know kailynn will have so much more fun this year! I’m giving Molly and Jon belly buds for Christmas they are really cool! They will be able to record them selves talking reading whatever songs they like and I can put it on my belly so the baby can hear mommy and daddy!!! I feel like its perfect for our situation!  To all the other surros or IPs reading this look them up!!! And I cant believe next month  they will be back in town to visit baby for the 20 week ultrasound!!!! There still undecided on if they will find out the sex. I’m excited no matter what!!! So here is what baby Jolly is up to this week!                                                      Your Baby in Week 13 of Pregnancy

What’s up with your baby? Well, besides being as large as a peach now, that big old noggin of hers is now about half the size of her crown-to-rump length (that’s one reason why your little peach looks more like an alien from outer space at this point). By the time you give birth, her body will catch up, measuring three-quarters of her total size. What else is going on in there? Tiny bones are beginning to form in her arms and legs, the intestines are beginning to move from the umbilical cord to the abdomen, and the vocal cords are well under construction (the first step toward saying, “I love you, Mommy!”). And because she can move her arms and legs in a jerky fashion, she may be able to get her thumb into her mouth (a habit that may come in handy for self-soothing when she’s a newborn.
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Woohoo 12 weeks!!!!

Its officially the safe zone!!! I’m so glad now I’m going to tell kailynn this week! I’m not really sure how much she will understand she’s only three but she is also very smart!!! I think she will be happy to know another one will not be moving in to play with all her stuff lol. Im feeling pretty good other then I feel like I’m getting big fast! I was thinking the other day about how I never thought I would get to this point and now look at me!!! I’m soooo glad God blessed me with such a great mommy and daddy to have a baby for!!! I’m still amazed that in like 6 months I get to give the most amazing gift to such a deserving family! I try to put myself in there shoes as much as I can. I’m sure they are so excited and worried just like any first time parents but there excitement and worry is so much more they have prayed and dreamed for this and its finally happening. I don’t think I will ever be able to understand the emotions they are going through but I try!  People still ask a lot about me and how I will feel after I give them there baby and don’t I love jolly… I’m finding it hard to answer that question I get why they would ask but its hard to make people understand.  I went into this knowing its not my baby. I was actively seeking a family that needed my help. I’m very sure I will be a bit sad not getting to feel baby Jolly everyday or see Jolly everyday. That’s also the perk I get to go home and sleep ALL night!!  It really is not the same as my own pregnancy I don’t feel like this is my baby its going to come out and look nothing like my kids I think that will be weird for me lol. As far as loving this baby I love Jolly with all my heart just like I do my own kids but like I said its just different! I’m not sure if people will ever really understand I think only other surrogates get what I’m saying and that’s ok. I tell everyone this is not for everyone but I feel like its for me! Now for the fun stuff what is Jolly up to thus week!!!             How your baby’s growing:

The most dramatic development this week: reflexes. Your baby’s fingers will soon begin to open and close, his toes will curl, his eye muscles will clench, and his mouth will make sucking movements. In fact, if you prod your abdomen, your baby will squirm in response, although you won’t be able to feel it. His intestines, which have grown so fast that they protrude into the umbilical cord, will start to move into his abdominal cavity about now, and his kidneys will begin excreting urine into his bladder.Meanwhile, nerve cells are multiplying rapidly, and in your baby’s brain, synapses are forming furiously. His face looks unquestionably human: His eyes have moved from the sides to the front of his head, and his ears are right where they should be. From crown to rump, your baby-to-be is just over 2 inches long (about the size of a lime) and weighs half an ounce.
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I’m glad it looks smaller today lol.

11 weeks!!!!

Nothing really crazy to report for week 11. I’m still tired some days some days I feel great! I’m hungry a lot!!! No real cravings Just food lol.  I’m excited for thanksgiving food!!! So here is how baby Jolly is!!! That’s what important anyway!   Slightly more than two inches long now and weighing about a third of an ounce, your fetus is growing by leaps and bounds when you are 11 weeks pregnant. And so is his or her head, which is equal in length to the rest of the body (don’t worry — all fetuses are top-heavy). On the crown of that large head (and over the rest of the body), hair follicles are forming. Fingernail and toenail beds begin to develop this week and by next week, the nails themselves will start to grow (so don’t forget to add a baby nail clipper to your to-buy list).Your baby’s body is straightening and his or her torso is lengthening (sounds like a yoga pose, doesn’t it?). Other poses your baby can assume now: stretches, somersaults, and forward rolls. And while you can’t tell this baby’s gender by its cover yet, testes are developing if it’s a boy and ovaries if it’s a girl.
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I feel like my belly went POP!!!